Notes from
Minnesota
Last time I told
you all about my new Lance 150 Vintage Scooter. I also
mentioned how I couldn't get the danged thing over 10
mph.
Well... all that
has changed.
It began when my
dear son and I enrolled in a motorcycle safety training
class.
We arrived at
the class early on Saturday and were immediately told that we
cannot ride our little scoot during the course. Yup. I had to
learn to drive a full-fledged five-speed motorcycle, clutch and
all.
Dang.
To be honest,
the only thing that kept me going after a long, hot Saturday
standing in scorching heat wearing long pants, jacket, boots,
gloves, and a blazing black helmet was the fact I didn't want
my child to see his mother quit.
So I endured,
and today am a fully-licensed motorcycle driver in the state of
Minnesota. Yippee! Plus, I easily drive 55. Double Yippee!
Better yet? I learned a lot about the writing life while out
there on the course.
More on that in
upcoming issues of Writing Etc.
Now that I've
conquered have my motorcycle license, I'm pondering hitting the
clear blue skies...
Onward and
upward!
Beth
P.S. Be sure to
check out our best sellers. Here's the
link.
P.P.S. Oh, I
almost forgot. I'm launching a weekly radio show this fall. If
you've written a book, own a writing related website, and/or
assist writers in any way and would like to apply for a full
hour guest slot, e-mail me so I can get more information about
you, your project, and your writing process. It's an exciting
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A Mindset
Moment
Hey
Freelancer,
When you watch
the incredible variety of plant and animal life upon Planet
Earth you begin to understand the limitless power of creation.
When you observe the incredible variety of voices in this
world, you touch the tip of the iceberg of all there is to
say.
Release your
unique voice. There is more than enough room.
(Mindset
Moment)
Beth's Hot Pick of the
Week
If you've
ever been in a writing slump, you know what I'm talking
about... nothing to say, words feel forced through your
fingertips, you're distracted faster than a Rat
Terrier.
Perhaps you just need a little direction to
set you on the right path. Billie
William's Writing
Wide, Exercises in Creative Writing is a short text
chock full of writing prompts guaranteed to get your keyboard
humming again. It's enjoyable, easy to read, and (most
importantly) inspirational. Enjoy!
July
Events for the Creative Mindset
Community
I'm opening
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get first dibs on the few open slots in the Creative Mindset
Community. Keep an eye on this space for
updates.
Every single member receives my regular
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So, if you're looking for a small, tight
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discussion where you can hang out with other freelancers,
ask questions, and simply be yourself... you need to check
out the Creative Mindset Community.
Keep an eye on this space. I'm opening 'er
up when you receive your next issue of Writing
Etc.
What Does Your Self Talk Reveal About Your
Writing Career?
Beth Ann
Erickson
Writers make much ado about word choice.
“Ultra-specific writing creates strong visual images in the
mind of your reader.” I’ve said that sentence on more than one
occasion when I’m working with one of my coaching
clients.
Writers study nouns, verbs, we read novels
and dissect sentences, always analyzing, hoping to discover a
formula to create sentences containing the biggest punch while
keeping economy in mind.
I’ve watched forum discussions melt into a
wet pile of disappointment as various discussion participants
naggle over using one word over another.
Word choice is something that’s very
important in today’s world. Politicians get their every word
analyzed, dissected, and interpreted. Newspaper articles are
analyzed and picked apart in nearly every small town café in
the world.
And writers deal with this phenomenon more
than the average bear. Face it, we’re a group of word-lovers,
continually forming sentences in our minds, always striving for
clarity… clarity of meaning, clarity of
interpretation.
However, because I correspond with so many
writers, I’ve noticed there is one arena where many writers
give little regard to word choice, the arena of self talk. The
words they use when describing themselves, their skills, and
their talents often leave something to be
desired.
This phenomena led me to not only monitor my
own self talk, but I began to listen to the way successful
writers spoke about themselves versus the way many veteran, yet
unsuccessful writers spoke about themselves.
Before I go too far, I need to ask one
question: Have you ever stopped to ponder the words you choose
when you’re talking to yourself or about yourself? If you have,
do you hear a lot of this:
“I’m not a real writer, I
just…”
“I don’t need to write for a lot of money.
Happiness is worth more…”
“I’ll never get published.”
“Nobody finds my writing
interesting.”
“I can't do this.”
“I'll never be able to figure this
out.”
Pretty sad stuff. But the saddest part is
that your thoughts become words and your words become actions.
Tell yourself long enough that you’re not a good writer and the
self fulfilling prophecy of that sentence will launch into high
gear and will eventually become reality.
It’s an amazing process to watch. In other
words, the more you trash talk yourself, the more your
subconscious will make sure that your words will become
reality. You’ll notice doors opening that’ll reinforce that
mindset. People who complement that negative self talk will
become drawn to you like a magnet. You’ll find yourself
surrounded with hard-core evidence that you are, in fact, a
very bad writer who will never succeed.
I’ve been writing for a long time and have
watched this sad scenario play out more times than I can count.
And as owner of Filbert Publishing, I’ve literally watched
writers follow this sad path, despite my dire
warnings.
On the other hand, successful writers cherish
their talent. They treat it as a wonderful gift and allow it to
flow freely, and may I add, joyfully as well. They speak highly
about themselves, they nurture big plans and nearly always
achieve them… if not overshoot them by a heck of a
lot.
“I love this job!”
“It's so easy to become successful at
this.”
“Writers are awesome.”
“I just love this piece I
wrote.”
“I know I'll find the perfect
publisher.”
“What a great challenge this
is.”
Successful writers take rejection in stride
as they are drawn to positive opportunities, wonderful doors
magically opening for them, and they surround themselves with
dreamers, achievers, and truly happy
individuals.
See the difference? Read the scenario for
negative writers, then read the “positive writer” paragraphs
again. Feel how the power of words affects your physiology, as
well as your psychological balance.
Words contain a real live punch. The thoughts
behind them will propel and guide your
career.
Your assignment this week? Monitor your self
talk. You just may be in for a big surprise.
~~~
Beth Ann Erickson is the “Queen Bee” of
Filbert Publishing. She’s also the author of numerous titles
including “101 No Cost and Low Cost Secrets To Turbo Charge
Your Freelance Income.” Pick up your copy today
at http://filbertpublishing.com/101.html
She’s also a busy copywriter, speaker,
and publisher of Writing Etc., the free e-mag for
writers.
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